CREATING AN ELECTRIFYING ATMOSPHERE OF LOVE

 

Love is not just a feeling you feel when you feel that you are feeling something that you have not felt before. Deep in the chambers of our heart is that desire to get something and aim for something different when we have had enough of what we presently have.

It is normal to look at your partner and suddenly realize that your once prince charming or queen Cinderella does not make your pulse rise again. The same person was meant all to you in the world now looks like a platonic friend. In the light of this, it is normal, if you will agree with me, that love at the initial stage is a coincidence, and when complacency sets in, it requires commitment.

Don't get it twisted. Love is created with your words, your moods, feelings and action.

 

Here are ways to create an atmosphere of love for your wife in your home.

 

• Respectfully communicate with her
• Let her know he’s important to you.
• Purposefully try to understand her feelings—even when you disagree with her
• Show interest in her friends giving her some time with them if they’re trust-worthy.
• Let go of the small stuff. We all have annoying habits and preferences that are different from our spouse’s.
• Tell her you both love her AND like her.
• Either show interest in her hobbies or allow her space to participate freely
• Protect her dignity on a daily basis.
• When confronting her, realize her has feelings also.
• Foster an atmosphere of laughter in your home. Look for ways to laugh together.

Here are some tips on creating an atmosphere of love for your husband with your actions

• Make him homemade soup when he’s sick.
• Look your best—dress to honor him and make him proud to be seen with you when you’re out together.
• Support him when someone tries to put him down. Be his best cheer leader.
• Don’t disagree with him in front of the children.
• Take him for a weekend get-away without the children.
• Cheer his successes whether in business or in other areas of everyday living.
• Graciously teach him how to demonstrate his love for you.
• Give him coupons to redeem—maybe for a back scratch or a shoulder rub.
• Buy him a gift certificate to his favorite lunch spot and put it in his wallet.
• Hide notes for him around the house where only he will find them.
• Thank him for just being himself.

Other tips for creating an atmosphere of love in your home

A marriage takes work. Listen to your spouse, don't interrupt or invalidate what they are saying. Listening means truly absorbing what your spouse is saying - if you are mentally planning what you are going to say next then you are not listening.

Remember, service and love are inherently connected. Whatever you know your partners needs, that is what you should be doing to love him or her. The moment you start insisting on your way or doing what you want, you stop showing love to your spouse. A marriage or relationship isn't just about you, love is a partnership, you put your partner's needs first. You should want to take care of them, protect them and ensure their happiness above all else.

Take your partner out to different places such as out for dinners, movies, picnics,or vacation. Don't go to places you went with your exes this may be awkward for both of you. Go to new places, learn new things. Learning new things together helps build the relationship and helps you learn about each other.

You can make mistakes in love, which is why forgiveness is such a vital part of your marriage. However, people often relate constant infidelity and lying as a mistake. Infidelity is a choice, not a mistake. A mistake is a an argument over something petty, not being considerate enough, forgetting something your loved one asked you to do not lying or infidelity. If you are a forgiving person, you are more likely to be forgiven.

For men, attend to details whenever your wife gets dressed up for any event by picking out anything new and praise it. When you are shopping with her, show her some of the available options (according to her taste) and if you don't like what she picks up, never express your dislike.

Go the extra mile for them. The modern world has made us busy; we're constantly doing stuff, and we never seem to have enough time to do it. Can you go out of your way to help your spouse do something that they need to do, that they dislike doing, or merely something they'd appreciate?

Trust your partner to be by him/herself. Unless there's a history of infidelity, trust your partner to make responsible, loving decisions in your absence. If they're out for beers with friends, or at a bachelorette party, trust them. They'll be surprisingly likely to honor your trust if you actually extend it.

A little physical affection goes a long way. Guys don't often show physical affection, and sometimes a little gesture like a kiss on the neck or a spontaneous embrace is just what she needs. Don't think of it as reassurance; think of it as reaching out.

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